Friendships & Hurts

I found a solution for us.

In previous weeks, I have seen a lot of people hurting from broken friendships.

Friendships where they gave it their all while the others gave nothing.

So, they are hurting, making promises to set boundaries, and never give so much again.

I have been there and I am currently there, so rest assured that I can relate.

A friend during a conversation said:

“Being kind and pouring into people is who we are, we definitely shouldn’t get hurt for being who we are.”

In respect to what she said, here is why I think we are all hurting.

We pour so much into people without pouring into ourselves. So, I think know It’s high time we learnt to love ourselves.

This is even harder because loving ourselves is a strange concept. We’ve given out love to others all our lives, so we don’t know how to love ourselves.

But till you figure it out, you must find all means to pour into yourself.

May we meet people and experience friendships where we don’t have to set boundaries.

Aisha

A girl who is learning to love herself more ❤️